Monday, November 16, 2015

Good weekend


It was good to get down to Uncle Frank's funeral this weekend. As always happens with funerals you get to see family that you haven't seen in who knows how many years. I have the best mother-in-law! She offered to share her hotel room with us so we wouldn't have to drive Saturday night. It made for tight quarters with her, Erika, Christina and I but wasn't too bad at all! We had a wonderful view from the room of the South Umpqua River. (See below) It was so very nice this morning. We saw our cousin Larry and a couple of his grandkids at our Sunday morning gathering. Many familiar faces of people I haven't seen in a long time! We are all struggling on! We saw a whole bunch of rainbows on our trip up today. Even a couple of double one's! The thought came to me this evening that I've appreciated. Without the rain (icky weather) there can be no rainbow. We heard this morning that there WILL be tests. Those icky times are often our tests but if I'm willing to leave it in my Father's hands and be willing then there will be a rainbow (joy) at the end.

It went well with Teagan Friday night/Saturday morning. She absolutely loves taking a bath. Give her a few cottage cheese containers with lids, a cup, a spoon with lots of bubble bath and she is one happy camper for a good hour! She is also very good at the memory card game. But boy is she a restless sleeper! It probably didn't help being in a new place! She takes after her mama and auntie there!!

Now for another busy week! I'm glad to be busy but I tell you, it's tough sometimes!


Our view from our motel room


Gorgeous Rainbows






Tegan Concentrating 


Go under my leg grandma!


Tegan being silly. :)










Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Uncle Frank's Funeral and more

It's Saturday at 2 pm in Roseburg at Faith Luthern. It's hard to believe that he is gone! The best way I can describe him is he was a sweet man with a very big heart. And the accordion, he loved playing the accordion!

I went over to Erika and Blake's tonight and watched the girls for a couple of hours. Poor Scarlet is in the 'I don't want mama to leave' stage. So it took a little bit to settle her down. Then she did just fine!! :) Teagan really impressed me tonight! She said that there were two dogs, two kids and one adult so I asked her how many that was total and she immediately said five! Then she started counting each one of us and then said yep, five. Considering she's 3 1/2 that's pretty good!! I've posted some pictures below. :)  I'll have her for an overnight stay Friday night. It'll be her first time her overnight here so it'll be interesting to see how it goes! She's getting to be such a big girl. Although Blake said she likes to wake up at 6! Hmm... guess I'll need to get to bed at a decent time!

And it was a very productive day! Leaves got raked, lawn got mowed, gutter's and roof got cleaned and checked on for leaves. And I'm so glad I'm seeing my Bowenworks lady tomorrow! :) But the outside is done! At least for a couple of weeks!! Garlic that I planted is coming up but nothing else. It was worth a shot to see what would happen with the lettuce, broccoli and swiss chard. I'll just have to wait for spring!


What are we going to make?



Teagan's finished project!


Scarlett saying Cheese! :)



Teagan, puppy, me and Scarlett. Everybody wanted the lap at once! So it was time for a group picture. :)





Saturday, November 7, 2015

Score!

I went to the Red White and Blue store today and found a nice set of pans. The ones I have are really starting to wear out. The nonstick coating is coming off and I really don't think that's real good for our health! That gotten taken care of today! The lid came with the large pan. Total was $18! I also found a new purse there. I think this is literally a new purse. There is absolutely no sign of wear. It's also very similar to what I've been looking at for years in catalogs but wasn't willing to pay the price. It was $3! About every other year or so I'll go there for a new purse. They've always ran around $3. There are 9 states that have stores in the US. Here in Oregon they are very reasonable. Much better prices then Goodwill!!








Monday, November 2, 2015

Sad day...

I got news today that Uncle Frank (Dave's uncle) passed away. He was truly a wonderful man with a big heart. I will most certainly miss him and sure am thinking of Aunt Pat and his family!

Thursday, October 29, 2015

A Quick Thought

As I was meditating this morning a thought came to me. If, deep down, I really don't like someone and never come to terms with that then when I associate with that person later in life there's a good chance that I'll be treating them in a not so nice way! Dementia runs in my family. Both Grandmothers, both parents had/have it. When dementia progresses the filters that watch the words that come out, that control our actions around others, starts disappearing. Thus those that are held in contempt are treated in a manner that is not acceptable to our Father because those feelings weren't taken care of when they should have been. And I would say there's a good chance at that point that a person is more or less clueless that they are being down right nasty at times. It's a very scary thought.  Is it hard to get along with everyone? You bet! But it's not a reason to hold them in contempt, to down grade them. After all, where would I be if my Father treated me the way I deserved at times? Another scary thought!

And after pondering a bit more this morning the other thought that came to me is that no matter how much I would want to take care of things, I can't do it in my own power. The only one that can change the basic human nature is my Father.  It's human nature to have people rub you the wrong way, it's human nature to be resentful. And while we can subdue (filter) what we know is a wrong reaction when our brain is at full capacity. That goes away and we go back to the basic human nature. Thus I need to be WILLING for my Father to take care of the issues that come up with others, let him guide me in how to resolve issues so that when I'm older they don't become a burden to someone else. Because if I don't allow those issues to be resolved my attitude will affect everyone around me!

Apparently I needed this reminder and hopefully my thoughts can help others as well! :)

Saturday, October 24, 2015

Gardening Day!!

It was absolutely gorgeous today! I'd say around 65*-70*. Got lots done and lots planted. My squash plants were still trying to produce, (see below), but I went ahead and pulled them up since I needed to get my garlic planted!! Out of curiosity I left the tomato plants in to see if any of the tomatoes will ripen any more. There is a ton of new growth and blooms on those plants but I highly doubt they'll do anything. I really thought that I'd dug up most of my garlic this summer but it was very obvious that I hadn't! Unfortunately I didn't go and check before I ordered more garlic, so anyone that wants garlic this summer.... all going well I should have a bunch of it!! :) I think the raspberries are about done. There isn't very many more to pick! Pretty much picked clean. There is some mold starting on some of them but very few have it since there's very few left. I went out and picked and ate this afternoon. I'm still astounded at how many raspberries I was able to pick this fall. I'm sure it'll be many years before we have a fall like this one!

I also planted some swiss chard, broccoli and lettuce. They're calling for a warmer than normal winter so I thought I'd give it a shot. Maybe it'll last all winter! Should of had those three planted a month ago but time tends to scarce for me! Today I just decided to MAKE time. Lawn also got a much needed mowing! I'm really, really hoping that it rains this week. Now that it's everything is planted it needs some moisture! The ground in the garden area is unbelievably dry in areas. The planter boxes aren't too bad but they certainly could use some water. The lawn is pretty moist since the long grass was keeping it wet and it's in the shade most the day now. They're calling for rain but this year a 'good soaking' being forecast means that it'll spit a little bit of rain and be done. Finger's crossed that forecast will actually verify!! The radar isn't looking all that promising though. Everything appears to be moving northwest into Washington and missing us. :( We'll see what tomorrow morning brings! Lots of wind today though, which typically happens in El Nino years with lots of split flow. The jet stream splits and send stuff to Washington and to California and pretty much leaves us high and dry with the southern most remnants of moisture.


Tomato plants-Certainly doesn't look like the plants typically do in October- end of October at that! The box behind is where I planted the broccoli, swiss chard and lettuce.


New blooms and growth on the tomato plants.


Will we get more cucumbers?? They'd stopped growing but in the last couple weeks they're growing again!


Ripening!


Still getting peppers!!


The plants have obviously seen better days but were still producing!


The garlic that I missed!


Maybe I'll be able to pull some potatoes from the compost bin??!


I think this is a sunflower. It's a  bit different in that it has lots of shots growing off the main stalk and each seems to have a flower at the end. The flowers are pretty small. It's growing in the compost bin.


Lots of rose hips but lots of blooms still too.


Still producing tomatoes. I'm curious if these will ripen or not.


The swiss chard, lettuce and Broccoli is planted here.


My garlic bed. This whole thing has garlic! This is where the squash plants were. The garlic growing is what I dug up and transplanted. The other side has the garlic that I ordered.


Where to put the extra plants that I pulled???


Found a spot! :) Hopefully they do okay! This box tends to stay wetter so we'll see!


Well, this got taken upside down but you get the idea! These were the squash that grew from the compost bin! I'm cooking one tonight. So I'll see what it's like!


Nice big bloom. :)


Anybody want some bulbs??? I planted a honeysuckle and these were where I planted it.



















Thursday, October 22, 2015

A Bit Frustrated

So I've been trying to figure out why I so unmotivated. I know this is how I feel when I have key dates coming up with Dave but I haven't had issues this time of year before, then it dawned on me yesterday that my mom's birthday would have been next Tuesday. So it's good to know why! For whatever reason that's how my mourning works. I don't feel sad perse but there is just a total lack of motivation to do much of anything. It's very frustrating when there's a stack of work. Sure, work gets done, but at a much slower pace, because for some reason I just don't think or work as quickly.

It's kind of looking like the job that would have made me full time won't work out, at least not for now. :(  But I keep reminding myself that there is a very good reason for that. I don't know what the reason is, but I will down the road!! I do have a client that is looking for me to do a bit more so I'll be able to do that at least!

Tomorrow morning I'll be up nice and early! Babysitting the grandkids! They really aren't babies anymore! Teagan is starting to learn to read. It's a lot of fun to get those snap chats! :) Love them so very much!!